Dating taking things slowly
Beware of this rationale, sex is the glue that holds an LTR together.
Sex can be an expression of love or it can be an act of recreation, but it is a prerequisite for an intersexual relationship.The “take it slow” methodology capitalizes on a guy’s insecurity in that it automatically places him into a constant position of qualifying himself to the woman at the risk of his reputation.In other words, if he doesn’t take it slow (i.e forces the issue, pleads his case too emphatically) OR he ejects altogether, he risks becoming who she, conveniently, “fears he really is”, a Player only interested in getting in her panties.The nature of the Alpha guy that women crave pushes him to have sex, not wait for it.In fact that sexual insistence is a prime indicator that a woman is dealing with an Alpha.
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It’s a self-fulfilling social convention that protects a woman’s ego no matter what the outcome.